The case is a real one. As for all ethical consultation cases, there are many clinical dimensions that the therapist will explore along with the ethical dimension that is the focus here.
We will use the LEAP-C skills as a guide.THE CASE
After a marital separation of two months, with the couple on the way to divorce, the client discovers that her husband is seeing another woman and has introduced the woman to their 12 year old son. The boy deals with chronic anxiety and learning disabilities. The client is enraged and tells her therapist that “the deal is off” about being neutral about what she says to her son about his father, an arrangement she previously agreed was best for her son. The client says she plans to tell her son that his father is a “moral scum bag and adulterer.” She said that her psychiatrist agreed with her that it’s time to stop painting her husband “with a rosy color.”
Listen
Explore (after empathizing with her distress)
Affirm
Affirm the client for being concerned enough to bring her plan to therapy before talking to her son, and for keeping her son’s needs present in her mind even though she is so hurt and angry.