THE CASE
Julie is considering divorce. She has no kids with her husband of 9 years but has built a life with him and feels committed to the best sides of him. He struggles with drinking and an abusive childhood past that comes out in anger, and a near compulsive need to constantly be out doing things--when she loves nothing more than being home in the quiet. She feels this pull between leaving the drama he creates in her life and the commitment she made to him. This is her second marriage.
Keep in mind that the following focuses on the ethical dimension. There are other clinical areas to pursue as well.
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Affirm
Affirm her willingness to take her commitment seriously.